Popi on her terrace - Carla Coulson
Cesarina on the terrace - Carla Coulson
I met the fabulous Popi and Cesarina when I still had a business waiting for me back in Sydney. I was in Florence for an Italian course that was meant to last one month. At the end of the month I was having way too much fun and decided to stay another month. I was going crazy in a small room in the centre of Florence and my Swiss friend who was doing the same language course as me recommended Popi's house. He promised 'it was close to paradise'.
I was hesitant about living in a house full of people but my friend insisted, till one day I went to meet the fabulous Popi. There she was dressed in a caftan (a different one to the above picture) smiling ever so sweetly over her balcony. I fell in love in love with Popi, her house, her cooking, her generosity, her nowness and the wonderful Cesarina who came with the package. I stayed two years.
Cesarina would be at Popi's place by 7.00am that meant that she took the regional bus from her home around 5.45am. Cesarina always had a smile and a cheeky sense of humour she would have all of us rolling around clutching our stomachs with laughter. Nothing like Tuscan humour to get the day started. I am yet to meet anyone that has passed through Popi's house in the last 25 years that hasn't fallen in love with both of these women.
Some mornings when I had a late class I would sit at the kitchen table with Popi and Cesarina and discuss life. It was during these discussions that they both told me literally 'to get a new life' probably in more eloquent words. Well, I did exactly that. I left my business, my family, my friends and my life in Sydney to come and share their life in Florence. It was Popi and her house that gave me the courage to leave knowing that I always had a 'safe port in a storm'. My years in Florence one could almost say were the best years of my life, so jam-packed full of happiness, learning and love. I still like to enter my memory somedays to re-live them one day at a time.
For all of you who have read Italian Joy and fallen in love with Popi vicariously I want to tell you that our friendship has endured all these years. She is the first person I call when I am in Florence and when I ask her if there is any room at her table she always responds no matter how full the house is 'c'è sempre spazio per te' there is always room for you.
Has any woman changed your life??
Friendship forever
Carla xx
If you love Florence and Italy you might to read Under the Tuscan Sun and Living in a Foreign Language. Of course you would probably lurve Italian Joy
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Ahhh, we wrote about the same subject today! I also lived in Florence in college and after, it's so special.
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Hi Carla, I was so mesmerised by your story of these 2 great woman. Does Popi still run her business? If so she will have to get a bigger kitchen for the amount of people that will want to sit around her table.
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I have been following your blog for the longest time, but I don't know if I've ever stopped to comment [sorry]. Your photography thrills me - I love to visit here. And after reading a post like this, I just had to stop and let you know that your sentiments in regards to these women has absolutely made my day. Bless you for blessing them with your gratitude, and bless you all for taking care of each other.
ReplyDeleteThanks Carla, for this very moving post.
To answer your question .. you probably are an inspiration to many... just judging from the comments on your postings.
ReplyDeleteI am happy to be able to be able to meet these two donne italiane ! feel like jumping on a plane and going to stay at Popi's, really !
I love your portraits of them. Che bella! I plan on visiting Italy next spring... your recent posts are inspiring me!
ReplyDeleteOh Carla - I love this story - such beautiful people. My nan is the person that for me stands out. She has endured more than most, but still manages to care for others - wow - strong ladies indeed.
ReplyDeleteAnd my mum - can't even begin to tell you how lovely she is.
Thanks again for your always lovely stories and images,
Axxx
Beautiful!
ReplyDeleteOh Carla, I love your stories and the gratitude with which you tell them! I want a Popi! Even if I have to be that for myself, I will! xo
ReplyDeleteThis really resonates with me ... i also have a dear friend Anna Paola in Italy... thanks for sharing your encounter with these important women...
ReplyDeleteMy grandmother. I had a wonderful nanny for my kids that they to this day still visit and love... They have the greatest memories of the 5 years she spent with us..
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What a heartwarming tale! I am sure you know how blessed you are to have brought Pope + Cesarina into your life. Grand post. xxpeggybraswelldesign.com
ReplyDeleteWhat an amazing pair of women and how inspiring to hear about their influence on the course of your life. And what vibrant portraits - that each tell a story of living life fully.
ReplyDeleteWhat wonderful character you've captured in such a simple portrait. Nicely done Carla...but of course :)
ReplyDeleteWhat an amazing story, It makes me want to pack up my life and move over there haha!
ReplyDelete~ Clare x
Awesome story. And sounds like even better memories.
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